Spots on a Leopard

The title of this book was born the day I walked into my therapist's office, believing that there was no hope of healing for me. The scars I carried were embedded in me from infancy, and I asked her: "Are we trying to change the spots on a leopard here with me? Are not some of these negative traits so deeply imprinted that we'll never root them out, no matter how hard we try?"And she replied, without a flinch, without hesitation, and with full confidence, "You were raised by leopards. Those spot